A Small Town Girl in the City Lights

 What do you mean by strong woman?  A strong woman is someone who is not afraid to share her opinions and speak her mind. She listens, but she doesn't allow other's problems to bring her down. She is filled with kindness, generosity, compassion, integrity, a willingness to be resolute, and authenticity. No matter what, she remains true to herself, first and foremost. Be that woman who can dream big and live that dream as well.  Be that woman who can deal with her issues and problems alone. Be that woman who can conquer this world. Be that woman who can fight her fears. Be that woman who can love herself and do whatever she wants to do for herself. Don't let your fears and insecurities make you weak or less strong. Stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself that you can do this. Because you can and you will. There were times in my life when I was scared of change and small things but now any problem I face, I look it in the eye and face it, that "I can face you b...

Let's Talk about Women Feelings.... How many of you express your feelings to your friends, family, partner or society? I guess lots of wom en hide many things from everyone because somewhere they are afraid of cri ticism, dislike, rejection and hatred. We are living in 21st  Century but still society doesn't accept those women who are too open about their like, dislike, feelings and thoughts.   We as a women are not able to express our feelings. Most of the women hide their feelings and desire specially when they are in a relationship.   We hide them deep down in our hearts and silent prayers. Those solidified and unsaid feelings are somehow connected to the heart and soul of every woman, which is not describable. That could be a burden of  education,  relationship, successful marriage,  career,  fear of loneliness, poverty, getting fat,  ageing,   and list goes on, to be afraid of.  Have you ever thought about it, as...

My Imperfections Make Me Real not Perfect   Today I am recalling my ups and downs and what I have learnt from them, just trying to put into words. I appreciate everyday for the changes I have made in my life. If anyone is going to read this piece of mine, I hope you'll learn something. Make Yourself Priority Stop pretending that you are happy because of others. Believe me, I have done this lots of time in my life. It is said that, "Bringing smile on others will give you satisfaction". But its only happen with your family, parents and loved ones. I have learnt that If I'am not happy doing anything, how it could be satisfying and how does it matter. So, just stop pretending that you are OK doing such things for the sake of others to keep them happy. Sometimes, you have to break their heart to save yours.  Change is Important I don't wanna admit, but yes, I have changed myself a lot because my old version was too weak, too emotional, too expressive, or less confident...

Should I dress up western/ethnic or just go with that dress in which I feel comfortable! What kind of makeup should I apply or leave my skin without makeup! What should I do with my hairs or simply leave them as it is! Which shoes/heels will go with my dress or simply put my sneakers and rock the roads! Should I use that bold lipstick to flaunt myself or be simply satisfied with my own skin! These are the most confusing questions for every girl I guess but only low-maintenance girls can relate herself to it totally. I mean many people may call them tomboys, and others may call them lazy or something else. But I just like to call it- ‘the low-maintenance girls’. Well, there is no problem at all being high-maintenance, but it’s also not anything bad to be low-maintenance. You only do whatever makes you happy. But those women who do consider themselves in the low-maintenance category, they really don’t care at all about their looks. But the opposite one can’t be bothered with these ma...

Relationships are complicated and it’s really not easy to handle at all. The guy you are dating, it always seems perfect at the start and it will look like a dream at first, but lately, your relationship feels like shit. Here are some obvious signs that show that he’s not the one for you:- •        Does he really trustworthy? •        You don’t discuss your issues, which can be an unhealthy habit. •        You really don’t feel like introducing him to your good friends. •        You have such times when you just wish he’d leave you alone. •        You deal with your own stuff even you don’t ask him for help. •        You know in your heart that you don’t have any future with him. •        Often you both want to...

ऑनलाइन शौपिंग साइट्स और लोगों के फैशन ट्रेंड्स और दूसरों से हटकर लगने के चक्कर ने लोगों की शौपिंग की जरूरतों को एक नया आप्शन दिया है और इस ऑनलाइन खरीददारी ने उनके लाइफस्टाइल को काफी फैशनेबुल और ट्रेंडी बना दिया है और ऐसे ही माहौल में पैदा हुए कुछ मुझ जैसे लोग भी, जिन्हें टाइटल मिलता है ‘शॉपहोलिक’ का या यूँ कहें फालतू के पैसे बर्बाद करने का। शॉपहोलिक लोग, ऐसे लोग होते हैं जो शौपिंग अपनी जरूरतों को पूरा करने के लिये नहीं करते बल्कि अपनी वार्डरॉब को ट्रेंडी चीजों से भरने और सिर्फ अपनी इस शौक को पूरा करने के लिये करते हैं।  आइये जानते हैं कुछ यूनिक बहाने और उनके विचित्र से शौक :-        कमाल के बहाने होते है शॉपिंग के दीवानों के लोगों ने जंगलों से निकलने के बाद गाँव बसाएं और शहर बनाएं और अपनी सारी सुख-सुविधाएं की चीजें बनाई और उपयोग करना शुरू किया। फिर शुरू हुआ दौर मार्केटिंग का , जिसने लोगों की जरूरतों को एक नया आयाम दिया और खरीददारी को एक शौक बना दिया और फिर पैदा हुए मेरे जैसे लोग ‘शॉपहोलिक’। शॉपहोलिक अपनी शौपिंग अपने शौक पुरे करने के लिए करत...

Dear Body, You and I have a bond like a real connection for years. I think m in a devoted relationship with you where sometimes I feel so confident and sometimes I get myself very low. Well,  f or my whole life, I have always loved you when I supposed to know your importance, made time for exercise or have given you the love and appreciation that you deserve. But, I am sorry because it took me so long to learn how much should I love you.  I am sorry that I avoided you for so many years and that I hated you so much. I am sorry that it took me so long to realize I was getting you into terrible shape.  I'm sorry for those nights that I spent crying myself to sleep, wishing that I was more attractive. I am sorry for that moment when i have created a single negative thought that I have ever had about you. I am sorry for those nights too whenever i got mood swings, i have eaten a lot without thinking about you, sometimes i really think that how badly I was treating ...

I hope you will learn something to my this piece.. We are human, so we all do some mistakes in our life. Life is so tough to handle every situation by own and making the right decision for our lifestyle. Somehow, we do mistake even on our daily basis routines. It’s really tough to take the right decision in our life. Sometimes we take the correct one or the wrong one. Whatever the mistake we take, we all move forward to that situation and lead our life in the same way we create. Somehow we all learn from our mistakes, so that we can’t do the same again.  Today I am going to tell you about my story, whether u can call it ‘My Mistake’. Well, I am 23 years old educated girl, came from a small-town, who is living her dreams in Delhi. I did a lot of mistakes in my life but fortunately ran out from that situation too. My life’s biggest mistake was trusted someone, who doesn’t even deserve me, my trust or my love. Well, I did a lot for that guy who was in my life for a long time, but ...